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Yaoi Stamp by ki55-me Yaoi Stamp by ki55-me
Wow, so it's been a long long LONG time since I've looked at this and the responses are amazing. It has been 5+ years since I made this stamp(I didn't even have photoshop, how crazy is that) and for it to still be circulating like it is is just--wow. I understand it's a touchy subject but I'm not ashamed to have made it. I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards.

Honestly people, I don't even read manga anymore. But please keep these discussions going, I have been reading them and I admit some of you want to make me take this stamp down and never look back, but I realize that what is being said by every single on of you is important and to delete the thousands of responses would be a shame. The subject of rape may be controversial, but I think it's important to talk about such things.
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
intolerant weiners sent fresh from the corruptive ovens of tumblr everywhere
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:iconaradiamegid0s:
aradiamegid0s Featured By Owner 1 day ago  New member Hobbyist Digital Artist
No??? no no. n o
I'm sorry, but you can't "Rape because you care". If someone is sexually assaulted, their assaulter would not care about how they felt. If they did, they wouldn't even do it to them. If you are going to do something, I guess you could keep the top half of this stamp but you should definitely replace the bottom part with something else.
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:iconarui-chi:
Arui-chi Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Student General Artist
To be honest it's kinda true tho. I have read a lot of yaoi mangas and a lot involves rape. :\
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:iconnintendofan2468:
NintendoFan2468 Featured By Owner 2 days ago
please be a joke...
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:iconaquosboost:
AquosBoost Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Student Digital Artist
ok that's just fucking disgusting and abusive
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:iconhansin92:
Hansin92 Featured By Owner Apr 7, 2015  New member
._. okay confirmed. yaoi fangirls are the most disgusting thing in the entire world.

yaoi fangirls sending me death threads in 3.....2.....1.....
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:iconpuggle-pup:
puggle-pup Featured By Owner Mar 29, 2015  New member Hobbyist Digital Artist
nurn this
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:iconeuropeanwildcat:
But to pretend that rape is ok is a whole other ballgame.
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
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:iconxzarias:
Xzarias Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
are u ok
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:iconmomo-lucario:
momo-lucario Featured By Owner Mar 9, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
is this meant to be satirical? because i think you may need to make it more clear .__. 
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
why can't more people be reasonable like this and not freak out
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:iconmomo-lucario:
momo-lucario Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
thank you
...but why are you frequenting the comments of this stamp? 
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 23 hours ago  Hobbyist General Artist
responses
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:icongraphitepaws:
GraphitePaws Featured By Owner Mar 8, 2015  New member
gross 
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
got anything better
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:icongraphitepaws:
GraphitePaws Featured By Owner 18 hours ago  New member
yea
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:iconskyiight:
SkyIight Featured By Owner Mar 6, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
this is not okay
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 1 day ago  Hobbyist General Artist
with you
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
i'm fucking laughing at the difference between the very first comments on this and the comments now 
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:iconeuropeanwildcat:
EuropeanWildcat Featured By Owner Mar 28, 2015
Same.
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:iconglitteryblood:
glitteryblood Featured By Owner Feb 18, 2015  New member
this is the worst fucking stamp :)
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:iconkittyjpg:
kittyjpg Featured By Owner Feb 18, 2015
bye
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Edited Feb 10, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
EW GR0SS LAWL AIM OFFENNDEDD!!!!1!!! EW EW EWWWW!!!!!!!!1!111!!

yeah i barfed in my mouth a little when i saw this but can you all shut the fuck up? god damn, find something better to piss yourselves over
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:iconarcanum-order:
ARCANUM-ORDER Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
:iconthisplz:

It's like gross is their only retaliation. Lmao.
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
spamming the same childish word over and over again and/or saying rape jokes are horrible and that you're terrible for making them

rather than telling the maker of the stamp why exactly "i rape because i care" wasn't exactly the best thing to use
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:iconaquosboost:
AquosBoost Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Student Digital Artist
because rape is a traumatic thing and it should be common knowledge that it's fucking horrible and gross
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 4 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
"because it's traumatic"

yes, a total reason not to make a "joke"!!!!1! because it triggeres memeem!!!

i've been molested before, even by my fucking nephew because of my body (it's bad enough that i suffer from gender dysphoria) and to this day i still want to kill myself over all of it, but am i pissing myself over a joke that wasn't directed towards anyone who would be harmed by it? no.

we all see shit on the internet that makes us feel awful; but it's the internet, and those are the consiquences

the person who made this wasn;t even thinking about those things and more about fantasy; FICTION, so can you all fucking shut up now lmao you're all literally saying the same thing

"gross!!!!!!" "ew" "go die"

realize you're only upset about this because tumblr taught you to be because there isn't anything else in life for you to flip your shit over
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:iconaquosboost:
AquosBoost Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Student Digital Artist
just because you're ok with it doesn't make it OK to make these goddamn jokes.

i don't wish death upon anyone and i have plenty of other things in my life to 'flip my shit over' (such as my education since my mental state is so bad i can't go to public school anymore). that doesn't mean it's ok.
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Hobbyist General Artist
it isn't perfectly fine, but nothing terrible
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:iconaquosboost:
AquosBoost Featured By Owner 3 days ago  Student Digital Artist
sorry, but i see total domination and being sexually assaulted in such severity as something completely awful.
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:iconm--e--g--a--n:
M--E--G--A--N Featured By Owner Edited Feb 5, 2015
what the hell?
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:iconspacebubbie:
spacebubbIe Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2015
this is gross tbh
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:iconladydata:
LadyData Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank goodness I never sat down and read yaoi :puke:
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:iconmediscouting:
mediscouting Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
wow rape is so funny :^)
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
some people think so apparently 

but don't flip your shit over it
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:iconvital-sine:
vital-sine Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Student Traditional Artist
It's not cute or funny really but I'll go onto explain why. In a sense I do find the statement kinda witty but you should read the rest of my text.

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We should be able to talk about rape however, people are using this stamp because they think the theme of rape in fiction or anywhere is in good humor or something they can just use to get off to... because to them yaoi, fandom, and fanfiction and rape/non-con themes go hand in hand. It's these thoughts like that which made younger me leave multiple fandoms after creepy incidents and similar statements as the text above were made in a literal, non-ironic way. It's just way too close to home so people couldn't tell if you were serious or not, and still can't since they see this everywhere being used in a context where it goes against the reason that you made it. Forgive them for being harsh, but I was about to make the same statement as them before I realized that'd be pointless.

Regardless the point you were trying to make it just missed it's target by like 100000 million miles but only because of other people. I honestly don't understand the rate at which people are attacking this particularly since you don't promote such things or themes... and there's millions of other deviants that have TONS of graphic non-con and rape themed or oriented work that deserve to be targets to criticism (if I put it lightly) instead.

It's weirdly off-putting to say this, but you should understand why people keep repeating "gross" over and over. It's because they see this on those pages that do support such things. I came here through an anime group and another user using this icon next to their non-con fanfiction link. This was as a result of a friend of a friend bitching about a user and their icons that all fell in the likes of "rape is fluffy if it's in fiction" context due to another friend of ours being a survivor and her finding such stuff horrible... I think that's self explanatory to see it's being used for the worse on this site.

While I do feel that you personally aren't the problem, I do feel that this deviation would do more good not being up here and being unusable to such people which circulate lots of work of rape/abuse work and use this to pass it off in a more joking or fluffy manners as if it can somehow mask the sickness of their content. That's my opinion however and I can't tell you what to do. I hope you can see this as a non-malicious comment. I'm just trying to tell you why this is happening and why people feel so harshly about such things. If maybe I didn't similarly see this first on a rabid fangirl page, then maybe I'd find the context of this actually funny as I similarly did enjoy anime and yaoi manga which had undertones of this in the past before I had bad experiences relating to how bad this is personally.

I'm usually lighthearted but I've seen so many people in fandom joke about abusive relationships and abuse particularly in fictional gay relationships solely because they get some kind of kick out of it or find it sexually gratifying on some level for reasons I can't explain? Like, I can feel you're akin to me when I was younger along the lines of not understanding how rape and yaoi went together. I just feel like it's disheartening to say this is a bit ahead of it's time since apparently young fans can't distinguish that it's meant to make fun of the very thing they obsess over being fluffy and "true love" which would be abuse or a crime in real life. If not just for that, but the fact that these people who do this to fetishize gay relationships specifically usually in fandom using this icon make me feel even worse about this not doing much good and being self defeating.

Sorry for the text. This turned into an essay before I realized it and I want to apologize 100 times.
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:iconrandomositygirl:
randomositygirl Featured By Owner Mar 13, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
Bonnie Bruh Chat Icon its all good i doubt anyone read it though and waste 3 years of their life.....:3
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:iconcroalurk:
croalurk Featured By Owner Mar 16, 2015  Student General Artist
go back to kindergarten "bruh"
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:icon1arty-ninja:
1arty-ninja Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Gross
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:iconayyydbunny:
AyyyDBunny Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student Digital Artist
gross
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:iconshamelessfancies:
ShamelessFancies Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
This is gross and despite what you "think" you're saying with it, it still comes out as glorifying rape and I am disgusted.
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:iconfennnir:
fennnir Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015
gross
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:iconkorrca:
korrca Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Hobbyist Digital Artist
gross
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:iconlucidafan:
lucidafan Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Whoa everyone calm your tits
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Student General Artist
Tell me about it. I literally got harassed by korrca and twinkfactory because I pointed something out. And it's starting to piss me off. >m<
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Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  Student General Artist
 "I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards."
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  Student General Artist
She's literally pointing out how bonkers it is. Literally. And if you have to censor your swears, you're a bit young to be on dA, aren't you?
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