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Yaoi Stamp by ki55-me Yaoi Stamp by ki55-me
Wow, so it's been a long long LONG time since I've looked at this and the responses are amazing. It has been 5+ years since I made this stamp(I didn't even have photoshop, how crazy is that) and for it to still be circulating like it is is just--wow. I understand it's a touchy subject but I'm not ashamed to have made it. I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards.

Honestly people, I don't even read manga anymore. But please keep these discussions going, I have been reading them and I admit some of you want to make me take this stamp down and never look back, but I realize that what is being said by every single on of you is important and to delete the thousands of responses would be a shame. The subject of rape may be controversial, but I think it's important to talk about such things.
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
i'm fucking laughing at the difference between the very first comments on this and the comments now 
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glitteryblood Featured By Owner Feb 18, 2015  New member
this is the worst fucking stamp :)
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kittyjpg Featured By Owner Feb 18, 2015
bye
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Edited Feb 10, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
EW GR0SS LAWL AIM OFFENNDEDD!!!!1!!! EW EW EWWWW!!!!!!!!1!111!!

yeah i barfed in my mouth a little when i saw this but can you all shut the fuck up? god damn, find something better to piss yourselves over
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ARCANUM-ORDER Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
:iconthisplz:

It's like gross is their only retaliation. Lmao.
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Feb 19, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
spamming the same childish word over and over again and/or saying rape jokes are horrible and that you're terrible for making them

rather than telling the maker of the stamp why exactly "i rape because i care" wasn't exactly the best thing to use
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:iconm--e--g--a--n:
M--E--G--A--N Featured By Owner Edited Feb 5, 2015
what the hell?
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spacebubbIe Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2015
this is gross tbh
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:iconladydata:
LadyData Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2015  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
Thank goodness I never sat down and read yaoi :puke:
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:iconlampaya:
lampaya Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
wow rape is so funny :^)
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:iconyummcheesecake:
YummCheesecake Featured By Owner Feb 10, 2015  Hobbyist General Artist
some people think so apparently 

but don't flip your shit over it
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vital-sine Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student Traditional Artist
It's not cute or funny really but I'll go onto explain why. In a sense I do find the statement kinda witty but you should read the rest of my text.

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We should be able to talk about rape however, people are using this stamp because they think the theme of rape in fiction or anywhere is in good humor or something they can just use to get off to... because to them yaoi, fandom, and fanfiction and rape/non-con themes go hand in hand. It's these thoughts like that which made younger me leave multiple fandoms after creepy incidents and similar statements as the text above were made in a literal, non-ironic way. It's just way too close to home so people couldn't tell if you were serious or not, and still can't since they see this everywhere being used in a context where it goes against the reason that you made it. Forgive them for being harsh, but I was about to make the same statement as them before I realized that'd be pointless.

Regardless the point you were trying to make it just missed it's target by like 100000 million miles but only because of other people. I honestly don't understand the rate at which people are attacking this particularly since you don't promote such things or themes... and there's millions of other deviants that have TONS of graphic non-con and rape themed or oriented work that deserve to be targets to criticism (if I put it lightly) instead.

It's weirdly off-putting to say this, but you should understand why people keep repeating "gross" over and over. It's because they see this on those pages that do support such things. I came here through an anime group and another user using this icon next to their non-con fanfiction link. This was as a result of a friend of a friend bitching about a user and their icons that all fell in the likes of "rape is fluffy if it's in fiction" context due to another friend of ours being a survivor and her finding such stuff horrible... I think that's self explanatory to see it's being used for the worse on this site.

While I do feel that you personally aren't the problem, I do feel that this deviation would do more good not being up here and being unusable to such people which circulate lots of work of rape/abuse work and use this to pass it off in a more joking or fluffy manners as if it can somehow mask the sickness of their content. That's my opinion however and I can't tell you what to do. I hope you can see this as a non-malicious comment. I'm just trying to tell you why this is happening and why people feel so harshly about such things. If maybe I didn't similarly see this first on a rabid fangirl page, then maybe I'd find the context of this actually funny as I similarly did enjoy anime and yaoi manga which had undertones of this in the past before I had bad experiences relating to how bad this is personally.

I'm usually lighthearted but I've seen so many people in fandom joke about abusive relationships and abuse particularly in fictional gay relationships solely because they get some kind of kick out of it or find it sexually gratifying on some level for reasons I can't explain? Like, I can feel you're akin to me when I was younger along the lines of not understanding how rape and yaoi went together. I just feel like it's disheartening to say this is a bit ahead of it's time since apparently young fans can't distinguish that it's meant to make fun of the very thing they obsess over being fluffy and "true love" which would be abuse or a crime in real life. If not just for that, but the fact that these people who do this to fetishize gay relationships specifically usually in fandom using this icon make me feel even worse about this not doing much good and being self defeating.

Sorry for the text. This turned into an essay before I realized it and I want to apologize 100 times.
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1arty-ninja Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Gross
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:iconayyydbunny:
AyyyDBunny Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student Digital Artist
gross
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ShamelessFancies Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Hobbyist Artist
This is gross and despite what you "think" you're saying with it, it still comes out as glorifying rape and I am disgusted.
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fennnir Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015
gross
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:iconkorrca:
korrca Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Hobbyist Digital Artist
gross
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:iconlucidafan:
lucidafan Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Student Digital Artist
Whoa everyone calm your tits
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student General Artist
Tell me about it. I literally got harassed by korrca and twinkfactory because I pointed something out. And it's starting to piss me off. >m<
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Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
 "I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards."
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Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
She's literally pointing out how bonkers it is. Literally. And if you have to censor your swears, you're a bit young to be on dA, aren't you?
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twinkfactory Featured By Owner Jan 30, 2015  New member Student Digital Artist
gross
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
 "I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards. "
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twinkfactory Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student Digital Artist
gross
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student General Artist
Gross? Your username is 'twinfactory'. I call that gross.
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twinkfactory Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student Digital Artist
gross
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student General Artist
Wow, you're a crybaby, aren't ya?
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twinkfactory Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student Digital Artist
gross
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student General Artist
Okay. I see I'm feeding a crybaby troll who can't even make a comeback. Goodbye, you whiny brat.
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:iconrachellos:
rachellos Featured By Owner Jan 23, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
i was okay until i read the last part
honestly what the heck
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
 I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards. " 

You can't read. <3
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rachellos Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
gross
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student General Artist
Like I said to the other guy, please, please leave me alone. This person made a mistake, yes, and maybe I have as well, but is it worth harassing me over? I already feel like crap, and I do not need you pushing it on me. I'm done. Please, please stop replying...
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rachellos Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
am i harassing you
no
but apparently i cant read, so :- )
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 3, 2015  New member Student General Artist
I just said please stop replying. You can't even be nice enough to do that. I admitted to making a mistake. Isn't that enough for you?
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rachellos Featured By Owner Feb 4, 2015  Hobbyist Digital Artist
however you can stop replying yourself you know
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DarkMaster544 Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2015
Remind me again why this exists.
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phonetia97 Featured By Owner Jan 25, 2015  New member
Read the description.
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Sammi-Arts Featured By Owner Dec 23, 2014
Okay, let me just say. Rape is not an okay thing to joke about.
But, 2 things.

1. The person is no longer active so screaming at them to take it down will do nothing.
2. I'm sorry, but screaming at everyone who thinks rape is something to joke about and calling them "trash" is pointless. If you think they are trash, don't fucking talk to them. Simple as that. Starting fights that don't get anywhere wastes' peoples' time and anger. I don't think any of these fights that I read had any point in the end. 
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Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
 I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards.  

Your reading skills, they be lacking.
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Empirica Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2014
Quoth the raven, "This is why we can't have nice things."
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
 "I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards. " 

Neither can you read.
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Empirica Featured By Owner Feb 5, 2015
oooooo sizzle
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ferricboat Featured By Owner Dec 21, 2014  Student General Artist
i hope the russians bomb us because of this

/s but seriously how can anyone think rape is ok
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
 I didn't make this stamp to glorify rape, I made it because so much of the yaoi manga I was reading at the time would talk of rape and love on the same page and I thought that was pretty backwards. 

Bro, do you even read?
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ferricboat Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  Student General Artist
bro, do you even sarcasm?
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:iconnoviazi:
Noviazi Featured By Owner Feb 2, 2015  New member Student General Artist
Wow, nice way to cover your butt. :iconslowclapplz: Very well done.
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